by Many things in life are better when you’re two – including masturbation. If you masturbate regularly with your partner, you can improve your sex life in the long term. In this article, we reveal the best tips for joint masturbation.
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Masturbating together can improve your sex life
Surveys by the erotic community Joyclub have shown: 34% of men and 14% of women masturbate daily. No wonder: Masturbation is healthy, pleasurable – and fun for two. Watching your partner masturbate and getting hands-on can be sexy as hell.
Advantages of masturbation together
New stimuli during sex: Watching your partner masturbate creates new visual stimuli that can increase your desire for each other immeasurably.
Learn from each other: What does he particularly like? What’s the best way for her to reach orgasm? During masturbation, couples can learn a lot about each other and their bodies.
Strong trust: When masturbating together, you show yourself authentically, honestly and openly. Showing your partner this way strengthens your emotional trust in each other in the long run.
Jerking off as a couple is always possible: Whether within your own four walls or via webcam in a long-distance relationship – there are many possibilities for joint masturbation. Via video call, the sexual tension can be maintained even over long distances.
Jerking off together – this is how you talk about it
Communication is the be-all and end-all in a relationship. Of course, this also applies to joint masturbation. Admittedly, opening up emotionally to your partner and talking about your most intimate desires is sometimes not so easy and requires a certain amount of courage. But hey, as we all know, the brave own the world – so here are a few concrete tips on how to talk to your partner about the topic:
Tell about a movie scene where you saw both partners sharing a hand during foreplay. Or tell them about a magazine article (for example, this one) in which you read about it and got very excited. Another option would be to give your partner a sex toy and wink at it, saying, “I’d love to see you try it out.”
An exchange of experiences about your previous masturbation experiences would also be conceivable as an icebreaker, of course. How often does your sweetheart actually masturbate? And what does he think about? This way you can carefully steer the conversation in the desired direction.
It is important to keep the conversation positive and relaxed. Your partner should not feel cornered, but also have the opportunity to honestly and openly address their own erotic desires and ideas.
7 valuable tips for masturbation for two.
In the silence lies the power! If you are masturbating together with your partner for the first time, you should not rush, but take your time. So that your first time together will be especially beautiful, we have summarized the most important masturbation tips here.
1) Find the right position
As far as the correct position is concerned, there is no right or wrong. It is only important that you can see each other well, observe – and also touch each other if necessary.
2) Relaxation as a basis for joint masturbation
Masturbation with a spectator is not that easy – even if it is your partner. Therefore, it is important that both of you are as relaxed as possible. Talk about your insecurities or concerns beforehand. Music, porn and erotic massages can help you loosen each other up a bit.
3) Look me in the eyes, little one
Deep looks often say more than a thousand words – and you don’t have to be embarrassed at all. Look calmly when your partner touches himself and touches himself. Even down below.
4) Take turns masturbating
For many couples, it can be very erotic to take turns masturbating. This way, everyone gets to enjoy watching their partner jerk off in peace.
5) Uses sex toys when masturbating together.
Small aids during masturbation are of course allowed. This applies to both him and her. Show each other what makes you hot and how your partner can integrate sex toys into lovemaking.
6) Dirty talk during masturbation for two.
Many men and women get really turned on by hot words and dirty talk during sexual acts, and when masturbating together, it’s a wonderful way to cheer each other on. The whole thing can also be linked with a hot role play.
7) The perfect timing for the joint orgasm
To experience the climax together during masturbation is an absolute highlight for many couples. The rule here is: practice makes perfect! The more often you masturbate together, the better you’ll learn to interpret and understand your partner’s orgasm signals.
You can learn to jerk off together
Couples who masturbate together have a unique opportunity to learn about their own sexuality and bodies in a whole new way.
Masturbating together can strengthen the emotional relationship with each other and also provide new impulses for the joint sex life. After all, only those who know what really brings their partner to climax during sex can lay the foundation for a long-term, happy relationship.
